A fully static reference table of Chinese kinship terms, grouped by father’s side, mother’s side, your own family, your spouse’s family and younger generations. Chinese characters are kept as the primary data; English equivalents are provided for every row. 64 Chinese kinship terms. Open the calculator →
Last updated:2026-11-12 · Generated from the site’s kinship-data.js and rebuilt whenever the terms change.
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Father’s side(14) · Mother’s side(12) · Your own family(12) · Spouse’s family(11) · Younger generations(8)
Father’s side · 🏠 14 terms
| Chinese term | Short English | Northern | Southern | English (full) | They call you (M / F) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 爷爷 | Grandfather | 爷爷、爷 | 阿公(闽南/客家)、爷爷 | paternal grandfather | 孙子 / 孙女 |
| 奶奶 | Grandmother | 奶奶、婆 | 阿嬷(闽南)、奶奶 | paternal grandmother | 孙子 / 孙女 |
| 曾祖父 | Great-grandfather | 太爷爷、老爷爷 | 太公、曾祖父 | paternal great-grandfather | 曾孙 / 曾孙女 |
| 曾祖母 | Great-grandmother | 太奶奶、老奶奶 | 太婆、曾祖母 | paternal great-grandmother | 曾孙 / 曾孙女 |
| 伯父 | Uncle | 大伯、大爷、伯伯 | 阿伯、大伯、伯父 | father's older brother | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 伯母 | Aunt | 大娘、大妈、伯母 | 伯娘、阿姆 | father's older brother's wife | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 叔叔 | Uncle | 叔叔、小叔、老叔 | 阿叔、细叔(粤)、叔叔 | father's younger brother | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 婶婶 | Aunt | 婶子、婶儿、婶婶 | 阿婶、婶婶 | father's younger brother's wife | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 姑妈 | Aunt | 姑姑、姑妈、老姑 | 姑姐(粤)、阿姑、姑妈 | father's sister | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 姑父 | Uncle | 姑父、姑夫 | 姑丈、姑爹 | father's sister's husband | 侄子 / 侄女 |
| 堂兄弟 | Cousin | 堂哥、堂弟 | 堂兄弟、堂哥、堂弟 | paternal cousin (male) | 堂兄弟 / 堂姐妹 |
| 堂姐妹 | Cousin | 堂姐、堂妹 | 堂姐妹、堂姐、堂妹 | paternal cousin (female) | 堂兄弟 / 堂姐妹 |
| 伯祖父 | Great-uncle | 大爷爷、二爷爷 | 伯公、叔公 | grandfather's brother | 侄孙 / 侄孙女 |
| 姑祖母 | Great-aunt | 姑奶奶、老姑 | 姑婆 | grandfather's sister | 侄孙 / 侄孙女 |
Mother’s side · 🌸 12 terms
| Chinese term | Short English | Northern | Southern | English (full) | They call you (M / F) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 外公 | Grandfather | 姥爷、外公 | 外公、阿公(部分Southern) | maternal grandfather | 外孙 / 外孙女 |
| 外婆 | Grandmother | 姥姥、外婆 | 外婆、阿嬷(闽南) | maternal grandmother | 外孙 / 外孙女 |
| 外曾祖父 | Great-grandfather | 太姥爷 | 外太公 | maternal great-grandfather | 外曾孙 / 外曾孙女 |
| 外曾祖母 | Great-grandmother | 太姥姥 | 外太婆 | maternal great-grandmother | 外曾孙 / 外曾孙女 |
| 舅舅 | Uncle | 舅舅、舅、老舅 | 舅父、阿舅、舅舅 | mother's brother | 外甥 / 外甥女 |
| 舅妈 | Aunt | 舅妈、舅母 | 舅母、阿舅母 | mother's brother's wife | 外甥 / 外甥女 |
| 姨妈 | Aunt | 姨妈、姨、大姨 | 阿姨、姨姨、姨母 | mother's sister | 外甥 / 外甥女 |
| 姨父 | Uncle | 姨父、姨夫 | 姨丈、姨爹 | mother's sister's husband | 外甥 / 外甥女 |
| 表兄弟 | Cousin | 表哥、表弟 | 表兄弟、表哥、表弟 | maternal / non-patrilineal cousin (male) | 表兄弟 / 表姐妹 |
| 表姐妹 | Cousin | 表姐、表妹 | 表姐妹、表姐、表妹 | maternal / non-patrilineal cousin (female) | 表兄弟 / 表姐妹 |
| 舅祖父 | Great-uncle | 舅爷爷 | 舅公 | grandmother's brother | 外甥孙 / 外甥孙女 |
| 姨祖母 | Great-aunt | 姨奶奶 | 姨婆 | grandmother's sister | 外甥孙 / 外甥孙女 |
Your own family · 🧸 12 terms
| Chinese term | Short English | Northern | Southern | English (full) | They call you (M / F) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 爸爸 | Father / Dad | 爸、老爸、爹 | 阿爸、老豆(粤)、阿爹 | father | 儿子 / 女儿 |
| 妈妈 | Mother / Mom | 妈、老妈、娘 | 阿妈、老母(粤)、妈咪 | mother | 儿子 / 女儿 |
| 哥哥 | Older Brother | 哥、大哥 | 阿哥、大佬(粤) | older brother | 弟弟 / 妹妹 |
| 姐姐 | Older Sister | 姐、姐姐 | 家姐(粤)、姐姐 | older sister | 弟弟 / 妹妹 |
| 弟弟 | Younger Brother | 弟弟、老弟 | 细佬(粤)、弟弟 | younger brother | 哥哥 / 姐姐 |
| 妹妹 | Younger Sister | 妹妹、小妹 | 细妹(粤)、阿妹 | younger sister | 哥哥 / 姐姐 |
| 嫂子 | Sister-in-law | 嫂子、嫂儿 | 阿嫂、嫂子 | older brother's wife | 小叔子 / 小姑子 |
| 姐夫 | Brother-in-law | 姐夫 | 姐夫 | older sister's husband | 小舅子 / 小姨子 |
| 侄子 | Nephew | 侄子、小侄子 | 侄仔(粤)、侄子 | brother's son | 伯父/叔叔 / 姑妈 |
| 侄女 | Niece | 侄女 | 侄女 | brother's daughter | 伯父/叔叔 / 姑妈 |
| 外甥 | Nephew | 外甥 | 外甥 | sister's son | 舅舅 / 姨妈 |
| 外甥女 | Niece | 外甥女 | 外甥女 | sister's daughter | 舅舅 / 姨妈 |
Spouse’s family · 💗 11 terms
| Chinese term | Short English | Northern | Southern | English (full) | They call you (M / F) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 老公 | Husband | 老公、爷们儿、当家的 | 老公、先生 | husband | 老婆 / 老婆 |
| 老婆 | Wife | 老婆、媳妇儿、家里的 | 老婆、太太 | wife | 老公 / 老公 |
| 公公 | Father-in-law | 公公、老爷子 | 家公(粤)、老爷 | husband's father | 儿媳 / 儿媳 |
| 婆婆 | Mother-in-law | 婆婆 | 家婆(粤)、奶奶 | husband's mother | 儿媳 / 儿媳 |
| 岳父 | Father-in-law | 老丈人、岳父 | 外父(粤)、岳父 | wife's father | 女婿 / 女婿 |
| 岳母 | Mother-in-law | 丈母娘、岳母 | 外母(粤)、岳母 | wife's mother | 女婿 / 女婿 |
| 大伯子 | Brother-in-law | 大伯子、大伯哥 | 大伯 | husband's older brother | 弟媳 / 弟媳 |
| 小叔子 | Brother-in-law | 小叔子 | 小叔 | husband's younger brother | 嫂子 / 嫂子 |
| 大姑子 | Sister-in-law | 大姑子、小姑子 | 姑仔(粤)、大姑子 | husband's sister | 嫂子/弟媳 / 嫂子/弟媳 |
| 大舅子 | Brother-in-law | 大舅子、小舅子 | 舅仔(粤)、大舅子 | wife's brother | 姐夫/妹夫 / 姐夫/妹夫 |
| 大姨子 | Sister-in-law | 大姨子、小姨子 | 姨仔(粤)、大姨子 | wife's sister | 姐夫/妹夫 / 姐夫/妹夫 |
Younger generations · 🍼 8 terms
| Chinese term | Short English | Northern | Southern | English (full) | They call you (M / F) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 儿子 | Son | 儿子、小子 | 仔、儿子 | son | 爸爸 / 妈妈 |
| 女儿 | Daughter | 女儿、闺女、丫头 | 女、女儿、妹仔(粤) | daughter | 爸爸 / 妈妈 |
| 儿媳 | Daughter-in-law | 儿媳妇、媳妇 | 新妇(粤)、儿媳 | son's wife | 公公 / 婆婆 |
| 女婿 | Son-in-law | 女婿、姑爷 | 女婿 | daughter's husband | 岳父 / 岳母 |
| 孙子 | Grandson | 孙子、大孙子 | 孙、孙子 | son's son | 爷爷 / 奶奶 |
| 孙女 | Granddaughter | 孙女 | 孙女 | son's daughter | 爷爷 / 奶奶 |
| 外孙 | Grandson | 外孙 | 外孙 | daughter's son | 外公 / 外婆 |
| 外孙女 | Granddaughter | 外孙女 | 外孙女 | daughter's daughter | 外公 / 外婆 |
FAQ · Chinese kinship terms
What do I call my father’s sister, and her husband?
She is 姑妈 (gūmā), usually 姑姑 (gūgu) in speech; northern China prefers 姑姑 / 姑妈, the south (Cantonese areas) 姑姐 / 阿姑. Her husband is 姑父, also 姑丈 in the south. English uses just Aunt / Uncle.
Mother’s brother vs father’s brother: what’s the difference?
Father’s elder brother is 伯父 (大伯), younger brother 叔叔; mother’s brothers are all 舅舅 regardless of age, with spouses 伯母 / 婶婶 / 舅妈. 堂 cousins come from father’s brothers, 表 cousins from mother’s siblings or father’s sisters.
How do northern and southern terms differ?
The classic example is mother’s parents: 姥爷 / 姥姥 in the north, 外公 / 外婆 in the south. Father’s sister is 姑姑 up north but 姑姐 / 阿姑 in parts of the south; 伯父 becomes 阿伯 and 嫂子 becomes 阿嫂. Dialects vary even more; we list the most common usages.
Does my gender change the answer?
It changes what they call you: a boy is 侄子 / 外甥 / 孙子, a girl 侄女 / 外甥女 / 孙女. Spouse and in-laws also differ (husband/wife, parents-in-law). Switch gender in settings to see the matching result.
What are these relatives called in English?
English usually ignores lineage and seniority: 伯父, 叔叔, 舅舅, 姑父 and 姨父 are all Uncle; 姑姑, 姨妈, 伯母 and 婶婶 are all Aunt; 堂/表 siblings are all Cousin. Add paternal / maternal or elder / younger when needed, or use first names; in-laws take -in-law.
Can it handle complicated relation chains?
Yes. Chains of up to 6 steps are supported — e.g. “father → sister → husband” gives 姑父. You can also search a term directly or type a phrase like “father’s younger sister”.
See the 18-generation table (nine up / nine down, nine clans, five mourning grades).
Back to the calculator: set gender, region and context, build a chain or search a term, then flip the card to see what they call you.