A fully static reference table of Chinese kinship terms, grouped by father’s side, mother’s side, your own family, your spouse’s family and younger generations. Chinese characters are kept as the primary data; English equivalents are provided for every row. 64 Chinese kinship terms. Open the calculator →

Last updated:2026-11-12 · Generated from the site’s kinship-data.js and rebuilt whenever the terms change.

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Father’s side(14) · Mother’s side(12) · Your own family(12) · Spouse’s family(11) · Younger generations(8)

Father’s side · 🏠 14 terms

Father’s side: Standard term, meaning, regional variants, English and reverse term
Chinese termShort EnglishNorthernSouthernEnglish (full)They call you (M / F)
爷爷Grandfather爷爷、爷阿公(闽南/客家)、爷爷paternal grandfather孙子 / 孙女
奶奶Grandmother奶奶、婆阿嬷(闽南)、奶奶paternal grandmother孙子 / 孙女
曾祖父Great-grandfather太爷爷、老爷爷太公、曾祖父paternal great-grandfather曾孙 / 曾孙女
曾祖母Great-grandmother太奶奶、老奶奶太婆、曾祖母paternal great-grandmother曾孙 / 曾孙女
伯父Uncle大伯、大爷、伯伯阿伯、大伯、伯父father's older brother侄子 / 侄女
伯母Aunt大娘、大妈、伯母伯娘、阿姆father's older brother's wife侄子 / 侄女
叔叔Uncle叔叔、小叔、老叔阿叔、细叔(粤)、叔叔father's younger brother侄子 / 侄女
婶婶Aunt婶子、婶儿、婶婶阿婶、婶婶father's younger brother's wife侄子 / 侄女
姑妈Aunt姑姑、姑妈、老姑姑姐(粤)、阿姑、姑妈father's sister侄子 / 侄女
姑父Uncle姑父、姑夫姑丈、姑爹father's sister's husband侄子 / 侄女
堂兄弟Cousin堂哥、堂弟堂兄弟、堂哥、堂弟paternal cousin (male)堂兄弟 / 堂姐妹
堂姐妹Cousin堂姐、堂妹堂姐妹、堂姐、堂妹paternal cousin (female)堂兄弟 / 堂姐妹
伯祖父Great-uncle大爷爷、二爷爷伯公、叔公grandfather's brother侄孙 / 侄孙女
姑祖母Great-aunt姑奶奶、老姑姑婆grandfather's sister侄孙 / 侄孙女

Mother’s side · 🌸 12 terms

Mother’s side: Standard term, meaning, regional variants, English and reverse term
Chinese termShort EnglishNorthernSouthernEnglish (full)They call you (M / F)
外公Grandfather姥爷、外公外公、阿公(部分Southern)maternal grandfather外孙 / 外孙女
外婆Grandmother姥姥、外婆外婆、阿嬷(闽南)maternal grandmother外孙 / 外孙女
外曾祖父Great-grandfather太姥爷外太公maternal great-grandfather外曾孙 / 外曾孙女
外曾祖母Great-grandmother太姥姥外太婆maternal great-grandmother外曾孙 / 外曾孙女
舅舅Uncle舅舅、舅、老舅舅父、阿舅、舅舅mother's brother外甥 / 外甥女
舅妈Aunt舅妈、舅母舅母、阿舅母mother's brother's wife外甥 / 外甥女
姨妈Aunt姨妈、姨、大姨阿姨、姨姨、姨母mother's sister外甥 / 外甥女
姨父Uncle姨父、姨夫姨丈、姨爹mother's sister's husband外甥 / 外甥女
表兄弟Cousin表哥、表弟表兄弟、表哥、表弟maternal / non-patrilineal cousin (male)表兄弟 / 表姐妹
表姐妹Cousin表姐、表妹表姐妹、表姐、表妹maternal / non-patrilineal cousin (female)表兄弟 / 表姐妹
舅祖父Great-uncle舅爷爷舅公grandmother's brother外甥孙 / 外甥孙女
姨祖母Great-aunt姨奶奶姨婆grandmother's sister外甥孙 / 外甥孙女

Your own family · 🧸 12 terms

Your own family: Standard term, meaning, regional variants, English and reverse term
Chinese termShort EnglishNorthernSouthernEnglish (full)They call you (M / F)
爸爸Father / Dad爸、老爸、爹阿爸、老豆(粤)、阿爹father儿子 / 女儿
妈妈Mother / Mom妈、老妈、娘阿妈、老母(粤)、妈咪mother儿子 / 女儿
哥哥Older Brother哥、大哥阿哥、大佬(粤)older brother弟弟 / 妹妹
姐姐Older Sister姐、姐姐家姐(粤)、姐姐older sister弟弟 / 妹妹
弟弟Younger Brother弟弟、老弟细佬(粤)、弟弟younger brother哥哥 / 姐姐
妹妹Younger Sister妹妹、小妹细妹(粤)、阿妹younger sister哥哥 / 姐姐
嫂子Sister-in-law嫂子、嫂儿阿嫂、嫂子older brother's wife小叔子 / 小姑子
姐夫Brother-in-law姐夫姐夫older sister's husband小舅子 / 小姨子
侄子Nephew侄子、小侄子侄仔(粤)、侄子brother's son伯父/叔叔 / 姑妈
侄女Niece侄女侄女brother's daughter伯父/叔叔 / 姑妈
外甥Nephew外甥外甥sister's son舅舅 / 姨妈
外甥女Niece外甥女外甥女sister's daughter舅舅 / 姨妈

Spouse’s family · 💗 11 terms

Spouse’s family: Standard term, meaning, regional variants, English and reverse term
Chinese termShort EnglishNorthernSouthernEnglish (full)They call you (M / F)
老公Husband老公、爷们儿、当家的老公、先生husband老婆 / 老婆
老婆Wife老婆、媳妇儿、家里的老婆、太太wife老公 / 老公
公公Father-in-law公公、老爷子家公(粤)、老爷husband's father儿媳 / 儿媳
婆婆Mother-in-law婆婆家婆(粤)、奶奶husband's mother儿媳 / 儿媳
岳父Father-in-law老丈人、岳父外父(粤)、岳父wife's father女婿 / 女婿
岳母Mother-in-law丈母娘、岳母外母(粤)、岳母wife's mother女婿 / 女婿
大伯子Brother-in-law大伯子、大伯哥大伯husband's older brother弟媳 / 弟媳
小叔子Brother-in-law小叔子小叔husband's younger brother嫂子 / 嫂子
大姑子Sister-in-law大姑子、小姑子姑仔(粤)、大姑子husband's sister嫂子/弟媳 / 嫂子/弟媳
大舅子Brother-in-law大舅子、小舅子舅仔(粤)、大舅子wife's brother姐夫/妹夫 / 姐夫/妹夫
大姨子Sister-in-law大姨子、小姨子姨仔(粤)、大姨子wife's sister姐夫/妹夫 / 姐夫/妹夫

Younger generations · 🍼 8 terms

Younger generations: Standard term, meaning, regional variants, English and reverse term
Chinese termShort EnglishNorthernSouthernEnglish (full)They call you (M / F)
儿子Son儿子、小子仔、儿子son爸爸 / 妈妈
女儿Daughter女儿、闺女、丫头女、女儿、妹仔(粤)daughter爸爸 / 妈妈
儿媳Daughter-in-law儿媳妇、媳妇新妇(粤)、儿媳son's wife公公 / 婆婆
女婿Son-in-law女婿、姑爷女婿daughter's husband岳父 / 岳母
孙子Grandson孙子、大孙子孙、孙子son's son爷爷 / 奶奶
孙女Granddaughter孙女孙女son's daughter爷爷 / 奶奶
外孙Grandson外孙外孙daughter's son外公 / 外婆
外孙女Granddaughter外孙女外孙女daughter's daughter外公 / 外婆

FAQ · Chinese kinship terms

What do I call my father’s sister, and her husband?

She is 姑妈 (gūmā), usually 姑姑 (gūgu) in speech; northern China prefers 姑姑 / 姑妈, the south (Cantonese areas) 姑姐 / 阿姑. Her husband is 姑父, also 姑丈 in the south. English uses just Aunt / Uncle.

Mother’s brother vs father’s brother: what’s the difference?

Father’s elder brother is 伯父 (大伯), younger brother 叔叔; mother’s brothers are all 舅舅 regardless of age, with spouses 伯母 / 婶婶 / 舅妈. 堂 cousins come from father’s brothers, 表 cousins from mother’s siblings or father’s sisters.

How do northern and southern terms differ?

The classic example is mother’s parents: 姥爷 / 姥姥 in the north, 外公 / 外婆 in the south. Father’s sister is 姑姑 up north but 姑姐 / 阿姑 in parts of the south; 伯父 becomes 阿伯 and 嫂子 becomes 阿嫂. Dialects vary even more; we list the most common usages.

Does my gender change the answer?

It changes what they call you: a boy is 侄子 / 外甥 / 孙子, a girl 侄女 / 外甥女 / 孙女. Spouse and in-laws also differ (husband/wife, parents-in-law). Switch gender in settings to see the matching result.

What are these relatives called in English?

English usually ignores lineage and seniority: 伯父, 叔叔, 舅舅, 姑父 and 姨父 are all Uncle; 姑姑, 姨妈, 伯母 and 婶婶 are all Aunt; 堂/表 siblings are all Cousin. Add paternal / maternal or elder / younger when needed, or use first names; in-laws take -in-law.

Can it handle complicated relation chains?

Yes. Chains of up to 6 steps are supported — e.g. “father → sister → husband” gives 姑父. You can also search a term directly or type a phrase like “father’s younger sister”.

See the 18-generation table (nine up / nine down, nine clans, five mourning grades).

Back to the calculator: set gender, region and context, build a chain or search a term, then flip the card to see what they call you.